GUYS!! Really, MALES! READ.

[Arucard]

Well i look for in girl is for her to be herself. If she can show me who she is then thats a plus right there.

turn offs: well bring up exs or anything long thoses lines.

Shit, been a while since i went i date >_> i can't think of anything else. Well thoses are big ones for me.


crap not much help on this topic.. sorry

[ScottCool]

I like I girls who don't look slutty, Act them selfs, and show a interest
i'm sure i'll think of more later

[Thunderstruck05]

Wouldn't know, never dated.

[ViperBite]

Preface: Ooh, this will be hard to call him "Dude" since I use that as a pronoun often. I'll call him Ex, that will be easier.

Where:
Go somewhere fun where you can be active and have something to do. Unless you're already going out and you go to his house to make out, movies suck. If you're going to dinner, don't go somewhere like a black-tie dinner, go somewhere layed-back where they have the best cheeseburgers in town, or something that's fun. But do something active and have fun to show that you're different from the average girl.

How:
Be yourself. Like, that sounds so trite but it's soooooo true. I met a girl once who liked me and the only fact she knew about me before we met was that I liked a particular movie. She would always try to start conversations with me so we could talk, and she would use that movie so I would talk back to her. She claimed that movie "made her life," but really he only saw like a half hour of it one time and she didn't remember it. I guess it was sorta cute that she was that desperate to get me to talk to her, but I was a little disappointed that she wasn't just being herself.

Also, like Arucard said, don't bring up exs. In small doses I don't mind, but don't spend your time reminiscing about them or anything.

Just have fun and enjoy yourself

[Arucard]

Oct 18, 2008 12:19:20 GMT -5 J3NN4F3R said:

Okay so it's basically just, be yourself?
But what if you don't really know who yourself is anymore and you just wanna be someone different?

Being yourself comes natural. Don't force yourself to do something that you wouldn't do normally. Don't pretend to be someone that you are not.

Example is I'm a laid back person, easy going. So if i went on a date and i acted like a "jock" then that wouldn't be me.

You are going to have to show the guy who you are, the true jenna. Thats the best thing you can do, and most men look for that. You may not think you don't know yourself but when the time comes it will come to you

[-Sinister-]

First dates:

First off, dont go anywhere where the pressure is on just you guys and is quiet. Go somewhere that is fun and exciting that you BOTH enjoy. Dont start off a date by going to the movies, unless you want to take it REALLY slow. BE YOURSELF!! Show him your fun, nice and exciting side (not to exciting if you know what i mean) When i go out with someone i always take them somewhere fun and i can see if she likes to have and is outgoing and cute. and most importantly, nice.
When you talk to him dont always talk about yourself. Keep the conversation going by talking about what he likes or asking about what he likes to do, but also let him know a little about you too (but not too much) Have a sense of humor and make some jokes or do something funny. Pay attention to him and smile a lot ;D

Dont kiss until after a few dates, this makes it seem like you just wanted to jump quickly back into the game and suck him into your life.

Serious dates:

If you feel like you like him enough, try going out on a little more serious date, but not too serious. Try and be relaxed and easy-going with everywhere you go. But only do this after going on some fun dates for a while or until you are comfortable with him. Mostly on these you just have to be polite, smile, and keep the conversation going.


Also, because your...umm...prego, your going to have to seriously make sure hes the right one, and hes going to make sure your seriously the right one. Thats all im going to say...

[P!nk]

I like good attitudes, decent looks and the first thing they say is NOT : How are you ?

[Conor]

I like it when girls just be themselves.

(but hotness earns brownie points)